Midwest Mom who will never stop advocating for the epilepsy community.
As told by his Mom, Melinda
I’m honored to share Beck’s story whenever I get the chance. Over the years, we’ve learned how important it is to speak openly about our journey—not only to raise awareness but to offer hope to other families still searching for answers. Our path hasn’t been easy, but we’ve found that with perseverance, there is always a way forward.
Beck, known to many as Beck the Brave, was just three years old when the seizures began, without warning, turning our world upside down. His first tonic-clonic seizure was something no parent can ever prepare for, and it marked the beginning of a long, difficult journey. For four years, Beck was treated at four different local children’s hospitals, where we hoped for a diagnosis and treatment that would bring some relief. Despite trialing more than a dozen different medications and combinations, nothing worked. Beck’s epilepsy was eventually classified as intractable, with his seizures continuing, especially at night, leaving us in a constant state of anxiety and exhaustion.
Throughout those years, we went through several EEGs and MRIs, all of which came back normal. It was puzzling and frustrating—how could we see the seizures happening, knowing how serious they were, yet have no answers from the tests? We knew Beck’s seizures were life-threatening, and we refused to accept that we didn’t know more about what was causing them or the best way to treat them. We kept pushing for more information, unwilling to settle for incomplete answers.
The search for a Level 4 epilepsy center and neuroscience institute that could help Beck ended up being 1500 miles from home. We formed a team that was truly invested in Beck’s healing, focusing on his quality of life, not just his seizures, and providing support for our entire family. This team offered a MEG (Magnetoencephalography) scan—something not available locally—which is more sensitive than a traditional EEG and can detect brain activity deeper within the brain. The MEG scan confirmed that Beck was having seizures deep in his brain, which the EEGs hadn’t been able to detect. This discovery was a turning point, providing the answers we had been searching for and changing the trajectory of Beck’s care.
At age 8, Beck had a Vagus Nerve Stimulator (VNS) implanted. While the VNS reduced his seizures, it also improved his cognition and mood in unexpected ways. He was more engaged, focused, and happier than we had seen in years. It felt like progress, but we knew there was more work to be done as he continued to have breakthrough seizures.
Then, at age 10, Beck had a Responsive Neurostimulation (RNS) device placed, and this turned out to be the breakthrough we needed. Since the RNS was implanted, Beck has been seizure-free for six months, a milestone we never thought possible. The RNS has given Beck freedom from the constant threat of seizures, and our family a much-needed sense of stability and peace.
That same year, we also found the underlying cause of Beck’s epilepsy. With the help of a neurogeneticist, Beck was diagnosed with a rare genetic mutation—one of the first people to have this specific gene identified. This discovery brought an end to the years-long search for answers, finally explaining not just his epilepsy but his other developmental challenges. While it didn’t change his condition, it gave us the clarity and closure we had been seeking for so long.
Beck’s journey hasn’t only been about medical challenges. At the start of 3rd grade, we transitioned Beck from his local public school to an independent homeschool program through a charter school. This shift allowed us to tailor Beck’s education to his specific needs. His schedule is now a matrix of supports, including several days a week with a tutor, online specialized academic education, and various therapies. These individualized interventions are helping Beck reach his full potential.
Beck is now reading, writing, and doing math. Science is his favorite subject, and he loves learning—something we never thought we would see. He has come so far from the days when the seizures held him back from being able to focus, learn, and make progress. His grit, determination, and love for learning have only grown stronger, in part due to the resilience he’s developed from his epilepsy journey. We believe in Beck and know he will do great things.
Outside of school, Beck loves musical theater and performs with a local theater arts group. He also takes voice lessons and has a special bond with his service dog, Jackson. Beck adores his big brother, Bauer, and is always up for a “b-venture” (adventure). He loves Disney days and traveling to new places.
Beck is now 11, and while the road has been tough, we’re deeply thankful for the progress he’s made. We’ve learned the importance of advocacy, persistence, and never giving up. Beck’s journey has shown us that with the right support and determination, even the most difficult milestones can be reached.
Melinda B.
Kind words you would like to share with a parent or someone newly diagnosed:
Build a support network: family, friends, professionals—lean on them. You are not alone in this journey. Your support system will be your lifeline.
Connect with Beck’s parents, Melinda & Tim:
email: melindamhughie@gmail.com / IG: @timinda / x: @mmhblalock
Thank you for sharing Beck’s story. I’ve been following his journey through Melinda for a few years now and am so happy for Beck and your family. Your love for your child prevailed and you never gave up looking for answers. You are an inspiration to parents and anyone struggling to find real help for their child.
Thank you, Andrea! 💜
Your writing is truly heartfelt and inspiring, capturing the complexities of your son’s epilepsy journey with honesty and grace. The way you navigated the challenges of elusive seizures and made the courageous decision for brain surgery reflects immense strength. It’s beautiful to hear that he is now living seizure-free—a powerful reminder of hope and resilience.
Thank you, Lisa! 💜